Let’s not treat as a priority those who treat us like an option…

If you wanted to be with me, you will be with me. It’s that simple.

Today I learned that it is time for me to move on and go…

Over time I realized that he who humiliates or despises a human being will sooner or later suffer the same humiliations or contempt. Over time I learned to build all my paths in today because tomorrow’s path does not exist. Over time I understood that rushing things and forcing them to happen causes that in the end, they are not as expected. Over time I realized that the best thing was not really the future, but the moment I was living right at that moment. In time I will see that although I am happy with those who are by my side, I will long for those who left. Over time I learned to forgive or ask for forgiveness, to say that I love, to say that I miss, to say that I need, to say that I want to be a friend because before a grave it makes no sense.

Over time I learned that apologizing anyone does, but forgiving is an attribute of only great souls. Over time I understood that if I have hurt a friend severely, it is very likely that friendship will never be the same. Over time I have realized that even being happy with my friends, I cry for those I let go. Over time I realized that every experience lived with each person is unrepeatable.

With time I understood that only who is able to love you with my defects without trying to change me, can give me all the happiness, and that over time I will realize that if I am with a person just to accompany my loneliness, I will inevitably end up not wishing to return to see that person. Over time I learned that true friends are counted and that whoever does not fight for them sooner or later will be surrounded only by false friendships. Over time I learned that the words spoken in moments of anger continue to hurt throughout life.

After a while, I learned the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. Also, that love does not mean going to bed and that a company does not mean security. I began to learn that kisses are not contracts and gifts are not promises. I began to accept my defeats with my head high and my eyes open and I learned to build all my paths in today because tomorrow’s terrain is too insecure for plans. Futures have their way of falling in half. When it’s too late and there’s no time, I learned that if it’s too much, even the heat of the Sun can burn. So I will plant my own garden and decorate my own soul instead of waiting for someone to bring flowers. I learned that I can really endure, that I am really strong, that I am really worth it, and I learned and will learn much more over time. And so every day, over time I learn that being with someone because it offers me a good future, means that sooner or later I will want to return to the past …